Life Success

Archive for March, 2009

I cannot seem to make things in my life go the way I want them to. However, I don't find talking to a therapist very constructive. I was wondering if anybody has ever found a "mystical" way to get their life in order.
BTW I don't mean looking for a magical cure – just a different insight that we might not normally come upon otherwise.

"Straightening out" life with advise of a psychic/spiritual healer is only guidance. The true force has to come from within. When one is born everything is planned but not written in stone. You have charted yourself to go through experiences you haven't had yet to complete the journey of the soul. Although written, life's experiences do have choice of flexibility, therefore, the psychics and spiritual advisers come into play. Everything happens for a reason. You have to listen to your gut, be open minded and trust your intuition. Good luck!

define Success Strategies… i would say for one always have a goal. what would be others.

G The first rule of success. is to learn what reality is and adapt based on you goals.

What are five factors affecting the success or failure of trade or business in a foreign country?

can't adapt to customs ,language barriers, tax/trade barriers, lack of research prior to opening up shop, and, did i mention failure to adapt?

What goal(s) have you dedicated your life to achieving?

I, personally, can't think of anything and feel that might be a source of the frustration I feel. Perhaps your answers will inspire me to find direction in my own life. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

I follow Ralph Waldo Emerson's definition:

“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children…to leave the world a better place…to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Hi there! I know the most important part in life is to know what we want (goals!!) and then break it down into steps so we can keep a record of our successes, mistakes… in a nutshell to know where exactly we are right now and know how far/close we are from our goal.

I am trying to do my break down but it gets longer and longer and I dont feel it has a proper order, too confusing.

Is there any proper format in which I should do it? Can you please advice me on the areas I should include? I know we have to include all the areas we want to improve but what do you consider are the most important areas in our lives that we must excel at in order to be successful/happy/fulfilled?

Thanks a lot! Blessings,

Spirituality

Body / Health

Relationships

Wealth / Finances

Free time / Leisure

Charity / Community service

Personal development

Career Goals

—I think all our goals, aspirations can be sumarized in those categories, hope it helps

and lessons risk and cost. True or False

True

success ?
The recent book "Collins Class Submarine Story: Steel, Spies and Spin" attempts to discuss the project.
By its nature a "key factor for success" can be not widely known. If key factors for success were widely known they would be more obvious and not always necessary to include in a list of key factors for success.
One thing that is not widely recognized is the importance of rerunning factory tests throughout the integration. Neither customer representatives nor supplier representatives will necessarily be aware of this this importance.
The contract documents almost unquestionably would have highlighted this importance.
So "rerunning factory tests throughout the integration" is very likely to have been one of key factors for success of the Collins project,and was quite likely to have been neglected, thereby impeding the project.

Hopefully there's an attempt to keep chain of custody of documents.

Looking at the key people who contributed, as listed in "Collins Class Submarine Story: Steel, Spies and Spin" won't tell us what impeded the project. For that we'd need a list of suspects, non-key people who didn't contribute except to throw a spanner in the works.

It seems to me that staff are replaced periodically (I note the six Project Directors).

While a key person is being replaced might provide an ideal window for the spanner-thrower.

I am 17 years old… been in a couple bands already.. and I've decided no matter what I will be singing for the rest of my life.. And am willing to do whatever it takes to achieve this goal no matter what… I just need a little advise from someone who's been there before.. someone with experiance in recording-preforming-writing bla bla bla. So if you whould like to change my life in a dramastic way. DO IT

You need to get a vocal coach for one. And you need to start auditioning for things…..local theater, bands, etc. Get really well known as a singer in your area. If you don't live in an urban area, you will have to move. Go to college in a large city like NY or Chicago. Chicago is good because it's a smaller city to start out in….check out depaul, roosevelt university. The best thing you can do for yourself is get into a really good music program. You're only 17 be patient….it may take another 10 years to be where you want professionally.

I WANT TO ACHIEVE A GOOD SUCCESS IN MY LIFE .I AM STUDYING IN BSC (INSTRUMENTATION). AND ALSO COMPLETED MY HARDWARE AND NETWORKING COURES.WITH CCNA AND MCSA .IF ANYBODY WOULD LIKE TO HELP ME OUT . PLZ LET ME KNOW .I AM AN INDIAN. IWILL WORK FOR U DAY NAD NIGHT,AND ACHIEVE MY SUCCESS. WITH YOURS SUCCESS, THANK YOU.

Follow honestly the following 5 D's :

Desire
Deserve
Demand
Direction
Discipline.

Right now I'm really in a slump.

I graduated from college with a major that I realized that I hate close to graduation. I've been applying to jobs in that field, just for the heck of it, but no response.

I've been applying to literally hundreds (via internet) jobs in unrelated fields, with extremely little feedback and no success.

I have no boyfriend, no one I'm interested in, and nobody interested in me.

My 2 best friends who I spent all my time with live–1 lives 1 hour away from me, the other lives 2 hours away from me– so I can't see them regularly.

My little sister, who dropped out of high school years ago, has a job that I completely envy right now, and I feel so inferior because I made such a big deal about putting myself through college.

My parents are very urgent and extremely disappointed that I'm not yet employed.

Oh yeah, and I've gained 10 pounds since the semester ended.

I don't know how to be positive or what to do with myself until I find a job and move out.

It's not unusual for a person to be depressed after achieving an important goal they've worked really hard for.

I can understand how hard it must be for you right now: you've tried so hard, and succeeded, and nobody gives a ***. Rather, you're getting grief from the people who could be giving you acknowledgement.

It's not kind. It's not fair. But it's real and true. It's life. "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly." My guess is that you're going through an "ugly" time. It, too, will pass.

For starters, check with your doctor. There may be a physical problem (e.g. thyroid) contributing to your difficulties.

The advertisers would like you to think otherwise, but a substantial majority of good jobs are never advertised. There may be exceptions, but I've never heard of anyone getting hired by applying 'cold' for an internet job. Applying (even a gazillion times) on the web for a job in a specialty you dislike – that sounds like (a friend of mine once said) "like kicking your own balls".

There have been a couple of times I've been really deep in despair. Not just self-pity, but having a really hard time with the real stuff in my life.

The one thing I've found that works in this kind of horrible situation is to work for other people who need help even more than I do. And, it's sad to say, there are always plenty of those. I'm not much of a believer, but I know that if I try to make this true:

"… for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was in prison and you came to me",

it's not been a waste. Just about any kind of outward-ly oriented action is preferable to brooding over one's own troubles.

You need to open your life. Having one's interactions limited to two distant friends, a sister you envy, and parents with whom you share resentment – that's a recipe for misery.

You may find that getting out there and doing for others, will do you more good, emotionally and professionally, than you could have imagined.